I don't know how to love my husband and encourage him. He's had a sexual addiction for the life of our marriage. He confessed his Infidelity six years ago, he's tried to be good, but he continues to go back to his addiction of mostly porn and a couple a months ago he solicited sexual favor. After so many heartbreaks I really don't have much to give him. He's in a pit that now he doesn't want to work anymore. He can't do any job because his overweight, so he says. I am at a loss with him. So, what I do is I stay away it's gone to the point I don't want to talk to him, the longer I stay away the better, that way I don't have to deal with his mental issues. It's a destructive cycle. Please pray for us and the family. The atmosphere at home is oppressive.